Condolence: My parents told me that when I was 3 years old, I started asking my mother for a twin brother and sister. My mother was not too enthusiastic about this since she already had 4 children age 5 and under. I was not deterred. I started saving toys and clothes for my requested new siblings. I even named them. Jimmy James was my name for the boy. I was so young that I did not even realize this was two versions of the same name. I called the baby girl Rita. My parents were perplexed by this because they didn’t know anyone named Rita and they were at a loss as to how I came up with the name. I talked about my twins so much that people were asking my parents who Jimmy and Rita were. My mother would smile and reply that they were the babies Mary wanted.
About a year later, my mother learned that she was expecting. Apparently, I went with her to one doctor visit. When she came out to the waiting room following her exam, I asked her quite clearly “did you tell the doctor that we want two?” People in the waiting room were starting to giggle so my mother tried to shush me. Mom said they only came one at a time. I stuck to my guns however and announced for all to hear that she should “go back in and tell the doctor that we want two!”
There was no history of twins in our family. About a month before her due date, the doctor said he couldn’t hear more than one heart beat but based on Mom’s measurements he would like to do an x-ray to see if there was more than one baby. Imagine their surprise when my parents learned that twins were on the way. I wasn’t surprised however since I personally put the order in.
When the twins arrived and they were in fact a boy and girl, my parents and relatives were stunned. Mom and Dad were discussing various names when my grandmother told my father that he needed to use the names that Mary gave the babies since she requested them and they were a “gift from God”. That is how James Joseph and Rita Marie joined our family.
Growing up with the twins was like I had living dolls to play with. They were lots of fun but there were many times I would not have described them as gifts from God. Earlier this year, my brother Jim died suddenly from a heart attack. Our family always knew Jim was the ultimate Good Samaritan because he was known to help anyone in need. As we went through the wake and funeral, we were told by countless people how Jim had helped them out when they needed it most. His good deeds went far beyond what we knew. It then came to me that my gift of years ago was truly the gift that kept on giving. Jim gave to others his whole life. Jim, you will be missed by all those you helped and those who loved you. You were the best gift I ever received.

Condolence: Jim- we all will miss you. I will always remember your deep generosity even before we really knew each other. You were always so nice to our kids. I am glad I had the chance to get to know you. Prayers are with you.

Condolence: My Uncle Jim was so kind and thoughtful. The year that the E.T. movie came out, I really wanted an E.T. doll for Christmas, but they were sold out at all the stores. Somehow, Uncle Jim was able to find one for me. I loved that doll! He also had a great sense of humor! Once we were out to dinner and I looked over at Uncle Jim. He had put the cucumbers from his salad over his eyes to make everyone laugh. He was so kind to animals. He loved his dogs and they loved him! We will miss him so much!

Condolence: Some of my fondest and dearest memories of working for Charles J. Sellers & Co., Inc. included my interactions with Jim. Jim could always be counted on for his jovial, light-spirited, and candid approach to people, things and life in general. I've been out-of-touch with Jim for the past six years or so, but I'm betting he was still the same smiling and engaging guy that he was some time ago.

To the Sellers family: I am terribly sorry for your loss. If I can ever provide you with a funny story about Jim (which I have a few), or help you in some other remote way, please do not hesitate to call me (Larry S. has my #). With sorrow and sadness, and wishes for stength through this difficult time,

Your Friend,
Chuck Kron

Condolence: For one of the few times in my life, I just can't find the words to express the depth of my sadness. I will hold our memories even closer than before. I will miss you like the brother that you were to me.

Condolence: Jim has always been a long time family friend. With every moment filled with heart felt entertainment. His laugh and spirit of the moment will be sadly missed by all who knew him. Our sincere condolences to all his family.

Condolence: To the Sellers Family,
I feel this loss as if he were my own brother. Jim & I had a special connection from the first day I started working for the Agency to present. He always had a smile for me..a laugh..a story to tell..always ready to offer his help in any way you needed it...always took the time to say hello..no matter where we might run in to each other. I will remember how he hated my "smiley" faces or my sticky notes, and how Norma & I decorated his office one morning with an abundance of both..just to see his reaction. How we laughed.

Jim,I will remember your smile, my friend, and always, always, that twinkle in your eye. We will meet again.

Condolence: May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Condolence: Jim was a sweet,wonderful man and I'm glad was a dear friend to my family. You will be dearly missed Jim, God Bless.

Condolence: We were so shocked and saddened to hear of your loss of such a young man, please extend our sympathies to your family. I can only hope that your fond memories of Jim can give you some comfort during this terrible time.