My deepest sympathies to the Stamey family. Losing a loved one in death is devastating and makes the heart pained. Jehovah God did not intend for life to be this way, where we lose the people we love to the enemy death. However, God does purpose to bring back to life those loved ones who have fallen asleep in death by means of a resurrection to a perfect life on a Paradise earth.~Isaiah 25:8a, John 5:28,29, Revelation 21:4. Ruth has this same hope for the future. My prayers are with the family at this time.