Debbie was my sister in law, but even though we had our differences over the years(and they were some doozies), I still loved her like she was my sister. I don't think Debbie ever realized how much I cared about her but I did and now I wish I had told her more. When we would visit there, I would always try to make sure I told her and David I loved them both. Sadly, the last few times I was there, it was impossible to do that. I pray that she knew how much she meant to all of us. Even though we all didn't get along all the time, she was always considered a permanent part of the family and if there had been any way I could have helped her I would have. She had a terrible time dealing with Davy's passing away and I felt so sorry for her but there wasn't much I could say except just listen. One day again I'm sure I will be able to tell her how I really felt about her and then I'm sure we will all be together as a family again with Jesus. David, if there is anything I can ever do to help you or if you just need to talk, I"m still your sister and I love you and Kayla. I'm here for you whenever you need me, even if its just to listen to you when you need to vent. I love you all and please never forget that we are all family no matter what may happen in the future..