My condolences to the Guatney family. I am very sorry to hear of your loss. I hope that the memories you've shared with Charles brings you happiness and comfort. Also comforting are the words at Psalm 147:3 which says, "He[God] is healing the brokenhearted ones, and is binding up their painful spots." Know that God is going to help you to endure under the distresses that you are facing, and also has provided a hope for dead loved ones in the future. ~John 5:28,29, Acts 24:15